The Lover’s Bondage Kit from the Fetish Fantasy Series includes adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs, an inflatable heart-shaped position pillow, a two-sided heart paddle, silk rose petals, Liquid Love warming massage lotion and a mask. I knew this kit would be good for me — a beginner — because the pretty box it came in is very clearly labeled as so. The images on the box depict an attractive woman putting the box’s contents to use. Looks fun!
When I got to try it myself, first my partner started off by laying out the petals on the bed, laid me down blindfolded and gave me a full body massage using the warming lotion, which sent sensations flowing through my body. He then put the inflated pillow under me and handcuffed my ankles and wrists.
Even though it was a fetish kit we used it as more sensual until he told me to turn over and then the heart paddle came into play and it was hot and sexy. I used the paddle on him and he enjoyed it also. I loved it! I usually am the one in control, but this helped me let him be in control.
Me: The positions on the box are very inspiring. The packaging definitely gets you excited to try it out.
Him: I like that the shoulder straps are well padded. It makes it a lot easier to have marathon sex when you aren’t worried about the straps rubbing you raw.
Me: The handles are great, especially when changing positions and getting in and out of it.
Him: It’s well made, but I wish it was a little more adjustable, and a little less “one size fits most.” I think the leg straps should be able to adjust more.
Me: You definitely need to have some upper body strength to hold yourself up; I think the claim on the box of weightless sex might be stretching it a little.
Him: It’s a great way to get a couples workout though, eh?